Wednesday, August 27, 2014

Tuesday, August 5, 2014

"Hot" is not a compliment.

I hate when men use "hot" to compliment a woman on their appearance.  It's generic. It's juvenile.  It's lazy.  It doesn't say anything about what you find attractive about that person.  Do you find her sexy?  Beautiful?  Cute?  Striking? Those are different things. What is it about her that you think is sexy? Beautiful?  Cute? Striking? If you think she has cute feet, say so. If you think the curve of her hip is sexy, say so. If you think her eyes are striking,  say so. If you think her smile is beautiful,  say so. Trust me...she'll take the compliment better.

G